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How to Overcome The Feeling of Bragging to Showcase Your Achievements

It’s natural to feel a bit uncomfortable when talking about your achievements, as you might worry about coming across as bragging or arrogant. Your upbringing or culture might discourage you from talking about your own merits. However, effectively communicating your accomplishments is crucial during the job search process. It is important that you share how you went beyond the foundational duties of your job to have a positive impact on the company, team, or clients you served. Here are some tips to help you overcome the feeling of bragging while still showcasing your achievements.

Shift Your Perspective

Instead of thinking of it as bragging, consider it as sharing your experiences and contributions. Your goal is to provide relevant information to demonstrate your value to the employer and to differentiate yourself from the competition. Ask yourself what you can bring to the table compared to another candidate who, like you, meets the minimum qualifications.

Provide Context

Share the challenges you faced, the strategies you used to overcome them, and the results you achieved. This provides a well-rounded picture of your accomplishments and highlights your problem-solving skills. When discussing achievements, use the STAR method (Situation, Task, Action, Result) to keep your response succinct and clear. Here is more information on how to use the STAR method when communicating your accomplishments. Use the art of storytelling to make your achievements more relatable and memorable while reducing the perception of bragging.

Share Credit/Be Humble

Acknowledge the contributions of your team and colleagues when appropriate. This shows that you value collaboration and understand that success is often a collective effort. Express gratitude for the opportunities you’ve had and the people who supported you along the way. Humility can counterbalance any concerns about appearing arrogant.

Use Data and Metrics

Whenever possible, use quantitative data or metrics to back up your achievements. Quantifiable results provide concrete and specific information about the impact you’ve had. They offer clear evidence of your accomplishments, making it easier for others to understand the scope and magnitude of what you’ve achieved. Quantifiable results lend credibility to your achievements. When you can provide data-backed evidence of your success, it demonstrates that you have a solid understanding of your work and can produce measurable outcomes. According to Indeed.com, “Using precise quantities implies that you have the data to back up your claims, which means that you are not embellishing.”

Practice Active Listening

Pay attention to the other person’s responses and engage in a genuine two-way conversation. This can shift the focus away from you and create a more balanced dialogue. This helps create a more comfortable and natural flow to the discussion.

Conclusion

Remember, sharing your achievements is an important part of presenting yourself as a qualified candidate. As long as you approach it with authenticity, a focus on value, and a willingness to engage in meaningful conversations, you can effectively communicate your accomplishments without coming across as bragging.

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